How To Achieve Your Dreams

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Around the time I was brainstorming for the perfect word for 2020, this wonderful thing popped up in my inbox. Since the beginning of the year, I have been participating in the Best Decade Ever challenge with Mel Robins. For those who don’t know, it’s a totally free 30 day challenge that teaches you to dream bigger. In her live videos, Mel talks about the science behind dreams, why you should dream bigger and how to break those huge dreams down into achievable steps. If you are not participating, I recommend that you do. The program is simple, doesn’t take up much time and it has given me clarity on several areas of my life. It has given me that push to work on my goals plus be more intentional about self-care and bringing love into my life.

How to Achieve Your Dreams for 2020 and Beyond

Dream Bigger

The main part of the challenge asks you to dream bigger. Instead of just focusing on 2020, Mel is asking you to think about the next decade and how you can make it the best decade ever. What are your big dreams? What can you accomplish in this decade? You find out by asking yourself, what are my dreams? Then you write down the first five things that come to mind. You can do this any time of day, but I prefer to do this in the morning. If you do this each day, you start to train yourself to think bigger. It also helps with creating positive energy, seeing reoccurring dreams and can help you gain clarity. I’ve seen so many amazing dreams posted, but here are my big five.

  • Build a life coaching business,
  • Get in the best shape of my life,
  • Make a steady income from this blog,
  • Find a loving and supportive relationship,
  • Have a second child.

Some of my other dreams are to find my tribe, travel, build my dream house and move out of state. Most of these dreams are broad and not specific and that’s okay. There are no rules when writing down your dreams. Whatever comes to mind is perfectly fine. Don’t over think it. If you have the same dreams every day, write those down. If your dreams are different, that’s fine as well. If you never accomplish these dreams or if they change over time, that’s okay. The point is to learn the skill of thinking about your dreams and realizing that they are possible.

Believe in your dreams and they may come true. Believe in yourself and they will come true.

Self Limiting Beliefs

Most of the time, we don’t even get started achieving our dreams because we tell ourselves that our dreams are stupid. We tell ourselves that we are too young, too old, not smart enough, not good enough or that we don’t deserve it. The self limiting beliefs can be endless. We are our own worst critics. We tell ourselves things that we would never tell anyone else. Mell offers a free tool that helps you get clear on your self limiting beliefs and how to get rid of them. This is hard work, but we have to train our brains to think the opposite of what we’ve all been thinking about ourselves for years. Old habits die hard.

Check out this video on self limiting beliefs.

Coffee on a desk with a tablet that says, dream big.

Brick By Brick

Last year, I wrote a post about my take aways from the book, Take Control of Your Life. Also, by Mel Robins. In that book, there was a concept where you build a foundation brick by brick. Well, this is how you achieve your dreams. You break each dream down into small achievable steps. In week two of the course, one of the assignments is to simply pick one dream out of your five and explore it further for 15 minutes per day. What does that mean? Well, there are many ways to explore a dream. One of my big dreams is to become a life coach and build a business, so that’s the one I chose to explore further. I bought the book Becoming A Professional Life Coach and started reading it. I watched a video of a sample life coaching session. Another day, I read everything on the World Coach Institute’s website. I’ve read blog posts written by life coaches on how to get started, listened to The Life Coach School’s podcast and I’ve done what I call a life coaching brain dump. This is where I’ve generated business ideas as well as a todo list for steps I need to take to get started.

Here’s another example. What if your dream is to start a parenting blog? Your first step would be to do a brain dump. Write down anything that comes to mind regarding your blog.

Dare to Dream word cloud

Blogging Brain Dump

One area may be exploring topic ideas. What do you want your blog to focus on? Here is a list of possible topics.

  • Developmental milestones,
  • Toy/product reviews,
  • Self-care for moms,
  • Breast-feeding,
  • Sleep routines,
  • Kid friendly recipes,
  • Educational activities.

You get the idea. List as many possible topic ideas as you can think of. Then do another list of action steps that you’d need to do to get started. Some possible items on your list might include

  • Coming up with a domain name,
  • Researching and finding a web host,
  • Explore WordPress themes,
  • Design website, (Banners, logos, layout etc)
  • Do research on writing a blog post (SEO, proper format, Pinterest etc)
  • Create written content,
  • Find images,
  • Create social media accounts for your blog,
  • Learn how to promote and drive traffic to your blog,
  • Learn about ways to earn an income from your blog.

The point of these lists is to have a place to get started. This way you can see what small steps you can take, what skills you need to learn etc. You can also do a list of steps you’ve taken if you’ve been working on your dream already. That way, you can see your wins and it will keep you moving. Staying with the blog example, one big step would be to choose a domain name. This will be the website address where your blog is located. To achieve this step, you may want to write a list of several blog name ideas. Then choose the one you like best and see if it’s available. If it is, your next step would be to buy the domain. Then your next step would be to find a hosting provider. If you know which one you want to go with, you’d simply go to that website and sign up for a plan. If you are an absolute beginner, your first step may be to do research and compare various hosting companies. There isn’t a right or wrong order to exploring your dream. Just do one small part or actionable step each day and that is how you get started. Brick by brick!

How to Achieve Your Dreams

As I write this, I’m wrapping up week two of the course and am looking forward to making more progress on my dreams during weeks three and four. I will keep you posted. What are your big dreams for this decade? What is one step you can take today to get startedd? Let me know in the comments.

6 thoughts on “How To Achieve Your Dreams

  1. Angie Emde

    Totally agree it’s important to dream big. I listen to Mel Robins occasionally and love her 5,4,3,2,1 concept. I will join her 30 day challenge best decade ever. Thank you for sharing information on it and the importance of dreaming big.

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  2. Joy

    I love this concept of brick by brick! I have been working hard on my blog and especially to gain traffic and it is a dream of mine to monetize the blog for a substantial monthly income to support our family. Realizing that the day by day and little by little efforts are very important for building this. Before I was trying to do big chunks and it wasn’t working as well. Thanks for offering this and confirming some things for me and my blog. All the best to you!

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  3. Dawn

    Girl this is my jam! I LOVE goal achievement stuff like this! I’d like to be a life-coach as well! I’ve been working on releasing my limiting beliefs and blocks to my success and it’s been AMAZING! Good luck on your journey and I’m sure you’ll achieve all these things you want and MORE!

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  4. Nicole

    Love this! So happy to see you sharing your dreams and ideas with everyone. I personally would like to grow my photography business this year, I am dedicating at least 1 hr a day to learning and growing in the personal development of it all. Can’t wait for you update when you finish the book!

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