Journaling

30 Back To School Prompts for Teachers

Here are several prompts to help you through the transition of getting back to school. You may want to use these prompts to shift your mindset, get clear on your goals for the first quarter of the school year or create a self-care plan.

30 back to school journal prompts to help you through the transition30 back to school journal prompts to help you through the transition

School Related Journal Prompts

  • How do I feel about teaching at this moment?
  • What is my purpose for teaching?
  • What do I enjoy about teaching?
  • What do I dislike about teaching?
  • What lessons have I learned from teaching?
  • What are my favorite lessons to teach?
  • What plans do I have for the first quarter?
  • How will I stay energized throughout the day?
  • What will cheer me up if I have a bad day?
  • My plan for time management at school is…
  • What can I do if I feel unheard?
  • How can I be better at listening?
  • What can I learn from a failed lesson plan?
30 back to school journal prompts

Home and personal Time Journal Prompts

  • How will I take care of myself?
  • Create a self-care plan.
  • My plan for time management at home is…
  • How will I stay present with my family?
  • How will I deal with stress at home?
  • Who can I go to for support?
  • What tasks can I take off my plate and or delicate?
  • The activities that bring me joy are…
30 back to school journal prompts for teachers

Journal Prompts for Moving Forward

  • What is my biggest struggle right now?
  • What is the first step I can take to overcome that struggle?
  • What is coming easily to me right now?
  • How can I bring that feeling to other parts of my life?
  • What am I grateful for in this moment?
  • How can I bring more joy into my life?
  • What are my long-term goals? (Personally or professionally)
  • What action steps do I need to take to achieve my goals?
  • What small actions can I take? (Today, this week, this month etc)

There you have it. 30 journal prompts to help you through the transition back to school. You can pick the ones that call to you and work from there. Even if you write for five to ten minutes a day. Journaling is a great way to process thoughts and feelings as well as a brain dump. You can get rid of all that clutter in your head before starting the day or going to bed at night. Does journaling help you in any aspect of teaching? Let me know in the comments.

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60 Journaling Prompts To Tell Your Story

I was inspired by a quote I saw today. It was about how we are all unique and have our own story to tell. There are so many benefits from not only journaling, but telling our stories as well. We can work through feelings, think creatively, express ourselves, share our ideas with others, let others know that they are not alone and once we feel comfortable with our story, we become more confident.

60 Journaling Prompts to tell your story

You may be wondering what telling our stories has to do with career coaching. Well, I find that when exploring possible new careers or if you are in the job search process, it takes a certain level of confidence and or courage. You will make mistakes. You will face rejection. You may wonder if you are making the right decision. You may be telling yourself stories about yourself that keep you stuck. That leaves you feeling under valued and less confident.

This type of activity may not work to build confidence for everyone and that’s okay. Take what works for you and leave the rest. You may just want to use some of the prompts to explore. If you are a teacher, these prompts may be useful to some of your students. These prompts can be a fun way to get you thinking outside the box which is something you need for career exploration and or job searching these days. The cherry on top is if you enjoy writing, consider it a form of self-care.

Questions

  • What is your favorite childhood memory?
  • What was your funniest memory?
  • What is precious to you?
  • What have been your biggest adventures?
  • What are your travel experiences?
  • What makes me unique?
  • Who inspires me?
  • What is my biggest fear?
  • What is my biggest regret?
  • What was the darkest time in my life?
  • What was the happiest time in my life?
  • What is your dream job?
  • What do you remember most about your pets?
  • What if anything do I admire about other cultures?
  • How do I stay active?
  • What is the best way to express myself?
Telling our stories

Self Reflection

  • What do I value?
  • What do others think of me?
  • What do I think of myself?
  • What do I no longer need to Cary with me?
  • What brings me happiness?
  • How do I cheer myself up after a bad day?

Autobiographical Prompts

  • My future goals are…
  • My childhood was like…
  • My school life was like…
  • My favorite place is…
  • My favorite things are…
  • My favorite person is…
  • My favorite things to do are…
  • My hero is…
  • My dream home is…
  • My experience in love has been…
  • The craziest time ever was…
  • My most valuable possessions are…
  • My worst job was…
  • My biggest accomplishments are…
  • My favorite feature is…
  • My family is…
  • Success means…
  • My best decade was…
  • My physical and mental health has been…
  • My worst habits are…
  • My experience with religion has been…
  • My scariest experience was…
  • The strangest food I’ve ever tried was…
  • I had the most courage when…
  • The best conversation I ever had was…
  • My wish that came true was…

Creative Prompts

  • If I were writing a book, I’d write about…
  • If I were invisible I’d…
  • If I had a time machine, I’d…
  • My super power is…
  • If I were an animal I’d be…
  • If I were something in nature I’d be…
  • If I wind the lottery I would…
  • If I could talk to anyone in the world, we’d talk about…
  • My dreams mean…
  • If I could live anywhere it would be…
  • If I could buy anything, I’d buy…
Tell your story with these 60 journaling prompts

Did you try any of these? If so, let me know in the comments. To get my other tips and inspiration, follow me on Instagram.

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How to Choose Your Word for 2021

Since 2020 is finally wrapping up, I want to start focusing on 2021. Honestly, I’m grateful that 2020 is ending. It has been a horrible year for many. However, I will be taking some things from 2020 with me like the importance of slowing down, continuing to build my business as well as the personal progress I’ve made this year. While I know all the terrible things won’t go away the moment the ball drops, it’s important to look ahead. Have you been thinking about New Years resolutions?

How to choose your word for 2021

The truth is most people make resolutions and then lose their motivation after a month or two. This is why I’ve gotten into the practice of choosing a word for the year. Even if you change or drop your goals, your word can still guide you. You don’t have to feel guilty about not sticking to those New Years resolutions. You can use your word as a guide for your daily actions and even if you skip a day or a week, you have nothing to feel guilty about. Doesn’t that sound much better? Here is how to choose your word for 2021.

Word for 2021 Brainstorming Exercises

You may already have a word in mind or you might not know how to start if this is your first time. The first step is to brainstorm and you can go about this in several ways.Journal and planner for 2021

Journaling

Write in your journal. Describe what you want 2021 to look like. Don’t forget all areas of your life. Personal, family, professional, social life, hobbies etc. The sky is the limit.

  • Do any themes reoccur?
  • Do any words pop out at you?
  • What feeling do you get?

Make your dream come true

Vision Board

If you are a more visual person, you may want to create a vision board for 2021. If you spend time visualizing your goals, you will achieve them. Just the act of visualizing your goals can bring them closer. If you don’t know where to start or don’t have any inspiration, there are tons of vision board images and tutorials online.

You can create a physical version with a sheet of poster board and some cut out pictures or you can create a digital version.

Here are some things you may want to put on your board.

  • Inspirational quotes or phrases,
  • Words that resonate with you,
  • Places you’d like to travel too,
  • Items you’d like to have,
  • Pictures of your dream home,
  • Pictures that represent your goals such as money, fitness, schooling, new hobbies etc.
  • Family life: Children, weddings, new partner, current partner etc.

The sky is the limit with this exercise too. Let your imagination and creativity go and make something you love!

Word Cloud

Make a word cloud or list of words that resonate with you. Whatever pops into your head. You can either do this exercise first or be inspired to make your list by one of the other exercises. Anything goes here as well.

  • What word or words pop out at you?
  • Which words connect to your goals?

Goal Setting for 2021

Set Goals

If you haven’t already, set some goals for the new year. I know that I’ve said you may not want to set New Years resolutions, but there still may be goals or dreams you have in mind for 2021 and beyond. Maybe you want to get in better shape, find a new relationship, be more present with your kids, take a family vacation etc. List your goals and the steps you need to take to get there. For more specific goal setting tips, come join me on Instagram!

For now, just make a list of your top goals and see if any of them are connected. Perhaps, that’s where you will find your word.

Let’s take my goals for 2021 as an example.

  • 1. Get ten coaching clients.
  • 2. Take a course for marketing on Instagram.
  • 3. Create my new weekly newsletter.
  • 4. Meet the man I have been talking to online.
  • 5. Be more present with Rosebud.
  • 6. Try a new hobby.

Most of these goals relate to beginning, creating, or starting something new, so I have chosen the word beginning for 2021. When I picture 2021, I picture a year of beginnings. A fresh start with opportunities to create something new. Wiping the slate clean and drawing a new picture. Rosebud has this new writing tablet and when she is done with her picture, all she has to do is push a button and it disappears. You are left with a blank screen to start over. That is my metaphor for 2021. Beginning again.

List of Words for Inspiration

If you aren’t inspired yet, here are a list of words to help you get started.

Adventure, Abundance, Change, Confidence, Connection,

Direction, Excitement, Focus, Friendship, Gratitude,

Happiness, Joy, Kindness, Learning, Love,

Movement, Positivity, Present, Productive, Reflection,

Renewing, Results, Self-acceptance, Self-care, Sharing,

Tolerance, Trust, Truth, Wealth, Wonder.

Choosing your word for 2021

What is your word for 2021? Tell me in the comments. I’d love to know. I wish you a happy new year. May 2021 be filled with peace and prosperity for all of us. I hope 2021 will be a time to reconnect and reunite. As always, stay safe and healthy.

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What To Do When You Want to Feel Grateful, but Don’t

I was going to end my gratitude series with a post on the 20 things I’m thankful for in 2020, but whenever I sit down to write this post, I’m not feeling grateful. I’m thinking about all the things that are not working for me right now and I’m thinking about everything wrong in the world. That doesn’t leave much head space for gratitude. Rather than try to force myself to write a post that’s not coming, I thought why not share strategies to help you when you are having difficulty feeling grateful. Here are three strategies that can help you when you want to feel gratitude, but don’t.

3 strategies to use when you want to feel grateful, but don’t.

Accept Your Feelings

Everyone knows that it’s better to have positive thoughts. I don’t think anyone consciously wants to stay in a negative thought pattern, but it’s easy to get stuck there. I think of it as a spiral. Something negative can happen to me in the morning and it can effect me for the rest of the day. On the other hand if something really positive happens, your thoughts start to go upward and you notice the positive things that are happening. This is why well meaning people say things like, “think positive” or “be grateful for what you have.” Well, there are times when life feels pretty shitty and you can’t see the beauty because you are living your nightmare day after day. The nightmare is different for everyone. It could be an abusive relationship, a horrible job, a bad break up, losing a loved one etc. There is usually something to be grateful for in the end no matter the situation, but sometimes it can be microscopic.

If you’re the person who needs the magnifying glass right now to see beauty in your life or to find that shred of gratitude, it’s okay. I’ll say that again, it’s okay not to feel grateful every moment. It makes those moments when you feel real gratitude even more powerful. Just notice how you are feeling and let it pass. You are not a horrible person if you weren’t spilling over with gratitude over the Thanksgiving holiday. I know I wasn’t and I felt guilty about it, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized that it is healthier to accept my feelings.

What to do when you want to feel gratitude, but don’t.

Make a Happy List

While there are so many benefits of gratitude, that doesn’t matter if you are not feeling it. Your mindset doesn’t change over night. Sometimes, we have to take baby steps. Rather than thinking about things you are grateful for, start by thinking about or making a list of what makes you happy. What makes you smile? What makes you laugh? You may be thinking, but isn’t that a gratitude list? Well, in a way it is since gratitude and happiness are closely linked. I want to take gratitude out of the equation for now because if you are not feeling grateful, you may feel pressured to come up with things you are grateful for. On the other hand, it’s not usually hard to come up with a list of things that make you happy.

This list can be as short or long as you want. It can be things from both past and present. Here’s a sample list I came up with.
Rosebud, mocha coffee, cupcakes, making people laugh, the beach, reading a good book, when someone says something I wrote helped them, wearing a pretty dress, snuggling with Diamond, hot chocolate, cheese cake, days off, chats with friends, when I’ve helped a coaching client, baby laughter, etc. I could go on and on, but you get the point. After you’ve made your list, how do you feel? Do you feel happier? Are you feeling more grateful than when you started?

Reverse Bucket List

Reverse Bucket List

When you think of a bucket list, you usually think of all the things you want to do in the future. Well, a reverse bucket list is all the amazing things you’ve already done.

  • What have you accomplished that you are proud of?
  • What events have made your life meaningful?
  • What have you really enjoyed about your life?

The purpose of doing this list is to remind yourself of the great things you’ve done in your past. Some examples may be having your children, meeting your partner, your wedding day, an amazing vacation, getting an advanced degree, a career switch, buying a home, learning an important lesson etc. You may in fact be grateful for these things, but haven’t stopped to appreciate them. This way, if you aren’t feeling grateful in the moment, you can recall things that will bring you back to feeling gratitude.

What to do when you want to feel grateful, but don’t.

Did you have trouble feeling gratitude this season? What do you do when you are feeling ungrateful? Tell me in the comments.

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10 activities to help teach your children about gratitude

For the past two weeks, I’ve been talking about gratitude. First, I went over some of the benefits of gratitude. Then I shared a list of 50 journal prompts to help you jump start your gratitude practice. This week, I’ll show you some different exercises that will help you teach your kids about gratitude.

10 Activities to help Teach Your Children About Gratitude

Gratitude Journaling

This adds onto last week’s post filled with gratitude journal prompts, some of which you can use with your kids. These may be fun to explore with school age children. Here are some additional prompt ideas.

  • What are you grateful for about your family?
  • Who are your friends and what do you like about them?
  • What makes you happy?
  • What do you have that other kids might not have?
  • Where are your favorite places to go and why?
  • What do you like about yourself?
  • What do you like about school?

Favorites

Make lists of any of these.

  • People you love,
  • Toys,
  • Games,
  • Songs,
  • Movies and or tv shows,
  • Things about nature,
  • Memories.

The Five Senses

Make a list of the things that you can see, hear, smell, touch and taste that you are grateful for.

If you can’t taste anything in that moment, make a list of favorite foods, snacks, candy etc.

Same goes for smell. What smells do you love?

If your kids aren’t writers, do this exercise on a long drive. What do you see out your window that you are grateful for?

Gratitude Photos

To expand on the journaling idea and to make it more creative, have your kids take photos of the things they are grateful for or draw them.

To add another educational twist, find things from A to Z and make a gratitude alphabet book.

Today I’m grateful for:

Gratitude Collage or Vision Board

Have your children cut out pictures from magazines of the things they are grateful for. You could also have them take photos, draw pictures or print off pictures from the internet. The options are endless. You can also include quotes if they resonate. Younger children could simply make a collage of things they love where older children could make a full vision board filled with pictures, quotes and their goals and dreams for the future. Let them be creative and run wild with this.

Gratitude tree. Start practicing gratitude with your kids

Gratitude Tree

Here’s another great craft to do around Thanksgiving or any time. Cut out or draw a blank tree and some paper leaves. Each day, write something you are grateful for on a leaf and add it to the tree.

Gratitude scavenger hunt

Decide on some objects or things in the environment that you are grateful for and either make a list or find a scavenger hunt printable. Have your kids find the objects and check them off the list.

Girls spelling thank you with blocks.

Gratitude Jar

You can use any glass or plastic jar for this. Take3 several strips of paper and each day, have your child write something they are grateful for and put it in the jar.

Random Acts of Kindness

Kindness goes well with gratitude and this activity is similar to the gratitude jar. Make it a kindness jar instead. Take strips of paper and write random acts of kindness on each. Then every day, pick a piece of paper and complete the act of kindness for that day. Some acts of kindness include:

  • Give a family member a hug,
  • Do a chore without being asked,
  • Write a thank you note,
  • Give a gift,
  • Give someone a compliment,
  • Share something with a friend or family member,
  • Help someone who needs it

Make Donations

Find a favorite charity and either donate money, time or items. If your favorite family charity is an animal shelter, volunteer to walk dogs or spend time with the cats. If you are donating to a food pantry, have your kids help gather food items. One great way to get your kids involved is to have them donate some of their old toys before they get new ones. It helps them to understand that some kids have less and that it’s wonderful to share with others. Plus it helps the environment because there are less toys simply being thrown away.

Grateful girl. Bedtime gratitude practice.

Gratitude Before Bedtime

Why not end the day by talking about the things that you are grateful for? It’s a nice way to wind down and relax. You could make it a ritual and talk about what happened that day to be grateful for as apart of the bedtime routine. If your night time routine is too full, it is also a nice way to wake up in the morning. It could be a relaxing and mood boosting way to start the day.

Meditation

Speaking of bedtime, there are lots of great meditations for kids that are all about gratitude and kindness. If you practice meditation, you may want to get your children involved as well. This is another relaxing bed time ritual or a way to help your kids wake up in the morning.

Reading

We’ve reached the last item on my list. Books are a great way to start teaching your kids about anything and gratitude is no exception. There are tons of books that can help you introduce children to gratitude. I’ll list some of them here.




How to Start practicing Gratitude with Your Kids

Check out this post for more gratitude activities for kids.

Do you have a gratitude practice? How do you get your children involved? Tell me in the comments.

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50 Journal Prompts to Express Gratitude

This is the second post in my gratitude series for November. If you missed it, check out these Five Benefits of Starting a Gratitude Practice. Now that we know why we should practice gratitude regularly, let’s dive into some gratitude exercises. There are different things you can do depending on your preferences, but this week, I will be focusing on journaling.

50 Journal Prompts to Express Gratitude

Why Journaling?

My favorite way to practice gratitude is through journaling for several reasons.

  1. It can be done in five minutes if you are short on time.
  2. The writing possibilities are endless.
  3. You can journal on a small notebook or your phone making it convenient.
  4. You can use photos to capture your thoughts instead of writing.
  5. Writing can be therapeutic regardless of the topic.

You may be thinking, what do I write about? Well, as I said above, the possibilities are endless, but I’m giving you 50 journal prompts to get you started. They are in no particular order. Just use the ones that resonate with you. Feel the joy and gratitude this can bring and don’t forget to have fun with this.

Women’s hand writing in journal

Gratitude for Today

  • List five things you are grateful for.
  • Look around the room and list as many things that you see that you are grateful for.
  • What made you smile today?
  • What things do you take for granted?
  • What’s one thing you learned today or this week?
  • What is your most recent purchase that has added value to your life?
  • How can you share your gratitude with others?
  • How can you pamper yourself today?
  • How is your life more positive today than it was a year ago?
  • What’s one win you’ve experienced in the past 24 hours?
  • Take a photo of something you are grateful for and caption it.

Gratitude for Memories

  • What’s the funniest thing you’ve seen or heard?
  • List some acts of kindness that people have shown you.
  • Describe your favorite childhood memory.
  • Whats the best book you’ve read and why?
  • Write about a difficult experience you learned from.
  • What family tradition are you most grateful for?
  • What gifts have you enjoyed the most?

Gratitude for Yourself

  • Make a list of the things you are good at.
  • Make a list of the things you enjoy.
  • What are your favorite foods?
  • What helps you relax?
  • Make a list of your favorite songs. Better yet, make a playlist on your favorite music service.
  • Make a list of your successes.
  • Make a list of your favorite quotes.
  • What makes you unique?
  • What skills do you have that others may not?
  • What do other people like about you?
  • What can you learn from your negative qualities?
  • Describe the last time you truly felt at peace.
  • List 10 things you can’t live without.
  • What is something you’ve recently fixed?

Gratitude for Others

  • Who supports you?
  • Write about someone who’s made a positive difference in your life.
  • What is your favorite memory of your family members? Do this for each one.
  • Describe your pets and why you are grateful for them.
  • What do you love about your current relationship status?
  • What small things do you enjoy with a special person in your life?

Gratitude for your Surroundings

  • Where is your favorite place to visit and why?
  • What do you love about your neighborhood/community?
  • What is your favorite part of nature?
  • Who inspires you?
  • What are your favorite things about the season you are currently in?
  • What do you love about your home?
  • Write about a great experience with customer service.
  • Where are your favorite places to shop, eat etc?

Gratitude for Your Past and Future

  • What are you looking forward to in the upcoming year?
  • Describe your perfect day.
  • List 10 things you have today that you didn’t have five years ago.
  • What are you looking forward to this week?

Journal prompts to jump start your gratitude practiceDo you do gratitude journaling? If so, what are your favorite prompts? What are you grateful for? Tell me in the comments. Be sure to come back next week to learn how to get your kids involved in practicing gratitude! I am grateful for you!

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5 Benefits of a Daily Gratitude Practice

For the month of November, I will be doing a series of posts on gratitude. Since Thanksgiving is coming up here in the U.S, it’s a great time to start focusing on things to be thankful for. However, if you live outside of the U.S or don’t celebrate Thanksgiving, you can still practice gratitude. In fact, you should be practicing gratitude all year long because studies have shown that their are numerous benefits of a regular gratitude practice. Here are just five of the benefits of gratitude that I’ve noticed since starting my own gratitude practice.

5 Benefits of a daily gratitude practiceBefore this year, I’d make lists os of the things I’m grateful for from time to time, but I didn’t do this regularly. It wasn’t until I started focusing on the wonderful things in my daily life that I noticed a shift in my mindset. I’ll admit that it’s not perfect and I’m still pessimistic by nature, but it has definitely improved my outlook.

Gratitude is a mood booster

Studies suggest that people who regularly express gratitude are happier. This seems pretty obvious when you think about it. When you pay more attention to the good things in life, it boosts your mood. For example, if I’ve had a rough day and I start making a list of the things I’m grateful for, I’ll start smiling because Rosebud is always at the top of my list. When I think about her, it’s usually about something funny she did or said that day. Right away, there’s a subtle shift in my mood.

To try this out for yourself, grab a piece of paper and make a happy list. It can be anything you are grateful for or anything that makes you feel good. When you are done with your list, read it over. How did you feel before writing your list? How do you feel after?

5 benefits of gratitude

Gratitude helps you relax

Practicing gratitude regularly has so many benefits to your mental health. Along with improving your mood, gratitude can reduce stress. Let’s go back to the rough day I mentioned above. If I go to bed thinking about all the negative stuff that happened that day, my stress levels are still high as I fall asleep. I’m not fully relaxed, but if I simply take a few minutes to write down some things I’m grateful for, it helps me focus on the good things before sleep. This way, I’m more relaxed and do less ruminating about my day. I’m not thinking about everything I didn’t get done from the todo list or something I could’ve done or said differently. Basically, it refocuses your thoughts.

This works in the morning as well. If you feel stressed in the morning or have a million reasons that you don’t want to get out of bed, try doing some gratitude. It doesn’t matter if you write it, speak it or just take five minutes to think about what you are grateful for, it will start your day off on the right foot.

Gratitude improves physical health

We’ve already discussed a couple of the mental health benefits, but gratitude has many physical health benefits as well. When you are feeling happier or relaxed, you will notice a difference in your body. Some of the health benefits include lower blood pressure, improved sleep, more exercise etc. This article goes into more details about the various health benefits of practicing gratitude.

Why you should start a gratitude practice today

Notice the small things

We spend too much time focusing on the wrong things. It’s easy to get caught up in negative thoughts and or drama. We may get sucked into negative conversations. We worry about stuff that won’t matter to anyone but ourselves. Too often, we care way too. Much about what other people think. This is where gratitude can help.

Gratitude journaling has helped me focus on all the wonderful things in my life. Big things, small things and everything in between. All the stuff I’d normally take for granted such as running water, electricity, TV, internet, the computer I’m using, my iPhone, nature, my home, the clothes on my back, a comfortable bed, the washer and dryer, friends, family and my freedom. I could go on and on. You could be thankful for your favorite food, your car, drinking water, your body etc. There are so many things we take for granted every day. Practicing gratitude helps you slow down and enjoy each and every one of these things. When we realize how much we have, we learn how truly fortunate we are.

Gratitude helps you manifest what you want

Here’s a benefit of gratitude that is on the spiritual side. No matter what religious beliefs you have, practicing gratitude can fit in with any of them because it’s focusing on the blessings in your life. It can help your spiritual mindset regardless. However, if you believe in the law of attraction which basically states that you attract what you put out into the universe. It focuses on energy, so if you release positive energy, you will get positive energy in return. Gratitude is one of the best ways to “raise your vibration.” If you are interested in the law of attraction, I highly recommend this book. It’s the simplest explanation of the law of attraction hat I’ve ever read and there are so many exercises that you can build into your daily life. Many of them are around gratitude.

Gratitude is one of the fastest ways to start manifesting what you want. The more you focus on what you have, the more things will come to you. The key is to visualize and focus not he things you want as if you already have them. One exercise you can try is to make a list of 15 things you are grateful for. Five from your past, five from your present and five from your future, but write them all down in the past or present tense. Here’s a sample list.

  • I’m grateful that I have found the love of my life.
  • I’m grateful that I made $10,000 last month.
  • I’m so thankful that I have a best friend who I can tell anything to.
  • I’m so grateful that I was able to travel last year.
  • I’m so grateful that I have a sweet, fun and intelligent daughter.

Okay, some of those things have happened and some of them haven’t, but it doesn’t matter. The point to be just as grateful for your past, present and future because the feelings are the same even if it has not happened yet and the physical and mental benefits are the same as well.

What do you think? Do you have a gratitude practice? What benefits have you noticed? Tell me in the comments! If you have not started a gratitude practice yet, be sure to check back next week as I will be sharing gratitude journaling prompts and exercises for you to try!

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How To Create Positivity from Missed opportunities

I had an experience last week that got me thinking about missed opportunities and the things that we participate in that we think are beneficial, but it turns out they aren’t. The question is what do we do with those missed opportunities? What do we do when a door closes? We pick up and start over. Here’s how to turn a missed opportunity into something positive. As the saying goes, turn lemons into lemonade.

How to find positivity in missed opportunities

When One Door Closes


This story is such a first world problem. It’s so inconsequential when we look at the big picture, but sometimes the smallest things can teach us the greatest lessons. I was apart of a Facebook group for bloggers where we can promote our blog using the daily threads. I have been a regular participant in this group for a while and always did my best to give more than I take. I’d always engage with the other bloggers on the threads. Whether it be liking social media posts on their accounts, commenting, or sharing their blog posts.If you know me, you know that I always try to go above and beyond to do things the right way. Especially when it involves helping other people. It was a shock to me that I was suddenly muted and could no longer respond to the other comments or post. There were days when I couldn’t respond until late in the day because I’m a busy mom. I make my original comments in the morning and then go back throughout the day to help the other bloggers. That is what’s always worked for me.

At first, I got mad because by doing that, they were basically accusing me of dropping my link and running. Then I was disappointed because I couldn’t participate for another month, but I quickly realized that maybe that group wasn’t the place for me anyway. When I thought about it, most of the bloggers in that group aren’t apart of my niche. While their content is great and they were super helpful, there wasn’t much of a connection. They aren’t the people that will become my clients. I could’ve waited a month and then tried to figure out what I had done wrong. Then I could spend time making sure I followed every rule, but for what?

I had to ask myself, how is this benefiting me? Is it helping my blog or coaching practice grow? How does it make me feel to be apart of this group now? It wasn’t giving my blog that much of a boost and I no longer felt welcome in the group. In the past, rejection hit me hard and while I felt a touch of that, I turned it around to something positive.

Woman looking through open door into the unknown

How To Move On

I started looking for groups that were geared towards busy moms, coaches and female bloggers. I found several that I have joined and so far, they’ve been wonderful groups. The best part is that they’ve given my blog a boost and the women are awesome. There is a supportive environment where we help each other. If you are interested in joining any of these groups, find their links at the end of this post.

How to bounce back when one door closes

Journal Prompts

How about you?
Are there any doors that have closed for you lately? How are you feeling about these experiences now? Here are some prompts to dive into if you use journaling to get your thoughts out. If you aren’t much of a writer, don’t worry about it. Just answer these questions in your head. The answers are all within you.

  • Describe your last missed opportunity.
  • Is this a positive or negative thing for you?
  • Did a better opportunity open up as a result?
  • If not, how can you turn it into a new opportunity?

  • List your first three steps for creating your next opportunity.

Finding Clarity

This process also works if you are trying to decide if a. New opportunity is right for you or if you need to get out of a situation. This could be a relationship, friendship or anything work related. Of course, we have to do things we don’t want to do at times. It’s a fact of life, but we can change our mindset. When deciding if something is right for you, answer these questions to get clarity.
  • How does it make you feel in your body?

  • If you let this thing go, what will happen?(pros and cons)

  • What are you giving up by moving on?
  • What are you giving up if you stick with it?
  • What are you gaining from moving on?
  • What are you gaining by staying where you are?

What is meant for you won’t pass you by.

When thinking about doors opening and closing in life, I try to remember this quote. “What is meant for you won’t pass you by.” This applies in business, relationships, purchases, friendships etc. What doors have opened or closed for you lately? Tell me in the comments. If you’d like to talk about creating amazing opportunities in your own life, feel free to book a discovery call to see how we can work together. I’d love to hear from you!

As promised, here are the Facebook groups I mentioned above.

Mom Blog Network Personal Development and Wellness Bloggers

Successful Mom Entrepreneurs Women’s Side Hustle Network

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35 Fall Journal Prompts for Self Reflection

Technically, autumn is not here yet, but the leaves are changing color and the weather is getting a bit cooler. At least it is here in the northeast where I am. When the seasons change, it is a good time to stop and reflect. You can figure out what you want to do with the remainder of the year, explore personal growth topics or simply have fun writing about new and old fall memories. Here are 35 fall journal prompts to help you fill those blank pages.

35 Fall Journal Prompts for Inspiration

Goal Setting

The last quarter of the year is a perfect time for goal setting. Prioritize and outline a plan to achieve your goals by the end of the year with these journal prompts.

  • What are your goals for the next three months?
  • How important are these goals? Put them in order.
  • If you were to achieve these goals, how will your life change?
  • What might block you from achieving these goals?
  • How can you remove these blocks?
  • What steps can you take to achieve your goals? (List out steps for each goal)
  • What is one step you can take today to achieve at least one of your goals?
  • How will you feel when you accomplish these goals?
  • How will you feel if you don’t achieve them?
  • What has helped you accomplish goals in the past?

35 autumn journal prompts

Seasonal Prompts

Enjoy these fun seasonal prompts.

  • What feels different about the fall?
  • What are your fall traditions?
  • What fall traditions would you like to create?
  • What is your favorite Halloween memory?
  • If you could cast one magical spell, what would it be?
  • What is your favorite Thanks Giving memory?
  • What are you grateful for?
  • What are your favorite fall foods?
  • Describe your perfect fall day.
  • Take some fall photos and make a photo collage. Write any thoughts you may have.

Fall journal prompts for self reflection

Self Discovery

Use these journal prompts to explore your thoughts and feelings.

  • How does your self-care routine change in the fall?
  • What do you need to let go of?
  • What is the biggest change you’ve ever made in your life?
  • What is the scariest thing you’ve ever done?
  • What are you afraid of?
  • Name 50 things you are grateful for.
  • What season of life are you in and why?
  • What would you like to achieve by next fall?
  • What are you excited to do each day?
  • How do you define beauty?
  • What are you open to receiving?
  • If you have kids in school, how do you feel about them returning to school this year?
  • What is your biggest struggle right now?
  • What is your biggest source of joy right now?
  • What do you need to do to prepare for winter?

Let me know if you find these fall journal prompts useful. Do your journaling habits change with the seasons or are you just getting started with journaling? Let’s talk about it in the comments.

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40 Summer Journal Prompts to Keep You Inspired

Since summer is the half way point in the year, some people find it helpful to reflect on the previous months or to think about what they want to accomplish for the rest of the year. One way to do this is through journaling, so I have gathered a list of some of my favorite prompts for the summer. They include prompts for goal setting, creativity or reflection. There is a journal prompt here for everyone. Enjoy this list of summer journal prompts to keep you inspired.

Journal prompts for summer 2020

Summer Prompts

  • Does summer feel different than other seasons to you? Why or why not?
  • Does your family have any summer traditions? What makes them special?
  • What part of summer do you look forward to the most every year? Why?
  • Take your journal outside and describe your surroundings. How are you feeling? What are you noticing?
  • What is your favorite summer memory from your childhood?
  • Create a summer bucket list.
  • Write a love letter to your body.
  • What is your favorite summer treat? How would you describe it?
  • What is your favorite outdoor activity? How can it translate into other areas of your life?
  • What are your favorite summer self-care ideas? Which ones can you do this week?
  • What does your dream summer day look like?

40 Summer Journal PromptsJournal Prompts for Reflection and Growth

  • What do you need to forgive yourself for?
  • Who do you need to forgive? Write an unsent letter to them.
  • If you could travel into the past, what would you do?
  • If you could travel into the future, what would you do?
  • Write about your biggest life changing moments.
  • What is the most valuable lesson life has taught you?
  • Describe the happiest version of yourself.
  • What do you do when people are unsupportive?
  • How do you know when to let go?
  • Make a list of the treasures in your life.

40 summer journal prompts

Prompts for Goal Setting

  • What quotes remind you of your goals and dreams?
  • What goals have you accomplished in the past six months?
  • Have your goals changed from the beginning of the year?
  • Have you accomplished what you wanted to so far this year? Why or why not?
  • What are your goals for the rest of the year?
  • Where do you see yourself in five years?
  • Where do you see yourself in ten years?
  • If you could attract anything into your life, what would it be?
  • What does success mean to you?
  • What holds you back from achieving your goals?
  • What are your goals for the month?

Journal Prompts for Creativity

  • What do you like to create?
  • What kinds of things did you create as a child?
  • What creative hobbies would you like to try?
  • How has creativity helped you?
  • How are you unique?
  • Make a list of things you enjoy doing.
  • Take a photo of something beautiful.
  • Make a hand written card or write a letter to someone you love.

Woman writing in her journal

Do you have any favorite journal prompts that you like to use for the summer? Tell me in the comments. Happy writing!

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